'Thanks giving day' musing

‘ November 27th is celebrated as a ‘ Thanks Giving Day’ in USA. ‘The great souls, moving as in a black and white movie, whom am I to thank ?’ I asked, the innumerable faces moving past in my mind, while lying on bed, after dinner in a relative’s house in Delaware. Not one or … Read more

What do men know about mothers' feelings?

My wife had to undergo a surgery under general anesthesia, soon after my daughter was born. I was near her hospital bed, looking at her face awaiting the moment her closed eye lids would open up. My ears also were standing alert not to miss a single lip movement, soon after she recovers from sedation. … Read more

A precious addition to the Perinkulam family

fantastic day today! Delighted to meet Shreya Ratna Perinkulam, who landed just this dawn to join Perinkulam family. She is my sixth grand child, third grand daughter . Shreya, lying on her father’s lap, looked charming, healthy and quite cheerful Atchu was elegantly holding his first child in his arms. From where did my quite, … Read more

Bend and thrive

Two years ago, I attended a wedding. The boy, a NRI, asked for a chair, as he could not sit flat on the floor, for the ceremony. It was not that he didn’t want to, but his knees were not cooperating. The girl’s father, an orthodox old man like me, didn’t want to sit on … Read more

Many to watch my mistakes and correct

A sister of mine, who is now in USA, corrected the position of my monkey cap, before boarding the car in our Boston trip. I reproached her: “remember, I’m not a child, but elder to you by 14 years!”. While doing pradakshinam in the Guruvayoor temple, long ago, she warned me:” anna, your veshti boarders … Read more

The tragedy stricken Kumbalakodans

Mother was upset when learned about my job transfer to Hyderabad. “No, you are not going” she was assertive,”anywhere in Kerala, yes. Coimbatore or Chennai, where we have relatives, too is acceptable. Not a mile beyond that” Father’s reaction was not immediately known. “Get my chellapetty,” he asked mother to get his betel leaf casket, … Read more

My Trichur days – part 3

My father left for Palakkad leaving me with our relative Doctor Vaidynatha Iyer who arranged my accommodation in Korangnathu pishAram, in the Vadakkan angAdi Road. PishAram is the house of pishArodi, or Sharodi in short, an ambalavAsi, traditionally a supporting staff for the temple activities. They used to serve temples and temples used to take … Read more